It’s important for
me to know what I’m talking about instead of using big words and looking silly
because I don’t know the true meaning of the word. I know you’ve seen it, I’m
talking about people who use words like Ludicrous, Blasphemy, Monotony, Rigmarole
and Malarkey or even simple words like Ghetto, Gangsta, Ratchet, etc… People
use these words all the time because they’ve heard someone else say it but they’ve
never really took the time to look up the true definition of the word to even
see if they even like the word or can relate to it. I do. Almost every day I hear someone use a word to
describe me and the work that I do. Some days I’m "Nice", "Sweet," "Intriguing,"
"Creative," "Eccentric," "Attractive," "Sexy," "Kind," Empowering," or "Direct" to name a few. I receive what has been
said as a compliment but once I get to my car I’m on my phone looking up the
definition to see if I really
identify with that word because people have no clue what they are saying at
times. All they know is that it made that last person smile.
My hope for the
world and the people surrounding me is that we are all striving for perfection.
Striving for perfection means that we are consciously working towards becoming a
better person every day, every hour, every minute with every situation that you
are being tested with. We all know that the probability of us becoming perfect
is ZERO. If you are anything like me you mess up, have word vomit daily and
wish that there was a way to use white out on your life at times. We may not
ever be perfect but I promise you that by now we have become EXCELLENT at what
we do in life. The definition of excellent is “to be very good at what you do.”
It’s time that we begin to own what we have been created to be and be excellent
at it! Hairstylist, Make –Up artist, Nurse, Pharmacist, Manager, Customer
Service Rep, Counselor, Friend, Mother, Father, Coworker, Wife, Husband, whatever you do in life BE
EXCELLENT at it!
What’s the
purpose of doing something every day at 45%? Motivate and prepare yourself to
leave home on 80% at minimum daily. That means by the time you refuel your
system with some delicious lunch you can tackle part two of your day on 100%.
Being at 45% is a waste of unused positive energy and ain’t nobody got time for
that! I heard a song on the radio the other day titled “I’m Different” and yes
it’s catchy, yes it has a bouncing beat but it’s a kind of “Bottom of the
Barrel” way to describe yourself. I don’t know about your genre but growing up being "
different” was not a compliment, it was a sweet way to call someone an "invalid”(look
it up) and now we have people walking around in circles chanting this song?! Again,
I think the song is…. okay but imagine a world where music was played that
motivated men and women to say that they are excellent and awesome. How much
would a song like that inspire people to not only realize that they have been cut from a
different cloth but that they are actually great at what they do? This would
end up being a mantra or an affirmation to lift you higher and higher every day.
Don’t just be a different kind of person be excellent at who you were created
to be.
Today tell yourself
that you are EXCELLENT at what you do and most importantly EXCELLENT at who you
have been created to become.
Congrats on an Amazing Site! I look forward to seeing what this blog does for you and most importantly the readers! J.Ali
ReplyDeleteWell said J.Key. Striving towards Excellent daily is definitely the vitamin E we all need. Thanks for your words of wisdom. I look forward to digesting more! Shameka B.
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